SADE is a not-for-profit kink and BDSM dynamic education initiative. We are committed to providing an inclusive, accessible, safe, and consent-focused education for everyone interested in kink and BDSM-based dynamics. All instructors are vetted for credibility and ethical standards.

We believe in supporting the community at large, and donate a portion of our proceeds to charity.

Our vision is to provide an accessible and inclusive space for all to learn about power exchange and authority transfer dynamics –regardless of race, ethnicity, religious affiliation, gender identity or expression, sexual orientation, ability, kink or dynamic.

1. SADE believes that Black Lives Matter, Black Trans Lives Matter, sex work is work, what happens in someone’s uterus is their business, and adhere to a zero-tolerance policy of racism, homophobia or xenophobia.

2. We are committed to service to community, and donate a portion
of our proceeds to charity every year.

3. We vet all of our presenters for credibility and integrity.

4. We compensate our presenters for their time and expertise.

5. We encourage respectful and inclusive participation in our classes.

An image of Leather BDSM equipment with the words Talk Like a Top with Danarama from who will teach voice and words in Topping
February 15, 2022
8:00 pm
Danarama will teach effective techniques for using voice, words, and scenarios to make your scenes more dynamic and sexy than ever before.
An image of Leather BDSM handcuffs and a red rose next to each other with the words Polyamory and Power Exchange with Invictuz and BebeBlueEyes of NCSF across the image describing relationship styles
March 15, 2022
8:00 pm
How do we balance a Power Hierarchy within other non-hierarchal, monogamous or PE relationships? Let’s dig deep into our Poly & TPE!
An image of a femme hand with red leather handcuffs on one wrist and the other handcuff dangling with the words femdom 2.0 now with less sexism with IPCookieMonster SlutPhd across the image. Describing a femme dominance.
April 19, 2022
8:00 pm
This workshop will address some of the social issues and notable challenges that arise in the context of feminine domination and masculine submission.
An image of a kneeling woman with her partner holding her hands and the words Service that Serves Us with Lee Harrington across the front of the image
May 17, 2022
8:00 pm
Let’s get down and dirty – talking about and working through exercises on establishing what service we really want, what we are able to give, and what drives us in service from all sides.
A silhouette of two people holding hands as they build their values-based power exchange dynamic
June 21, 2022
8:00 pm
Beast and echo will discuss tools and tricks they used to create a strong and sustainable dynamic based on their personal values, as well as many of the ways they found that did not work for them.
Two women in an intimate embrace as one of them cries and is stressed out, her partner holds her and is looking distressed as well. The words Supporting a Stressed Out Partner with Miss Mackenzee are on the graphic
July 19, 2022
8:00 pm
Miss Mackenzee will teach ways to honor and strengthen your power exchange dynamic, and attend to your own needs during times of stress.
An image of a red heart shaped lock on a computer keyboard with a woman's hands typing. The text on the front says Long Distance BDSM Kink Play, long distance kink with Kim Lee on August 16 at 8pm central time. hosted by SADE. To advertise the long distance bdsm kink play and long distance kink class. long distance bdsm kink play.
August 16, 2022
8:00 pm
This class will give you a few ideas of how to keep things spicy with long distance BDSM kink play while you are separated from your partner.
An image of the silhouette of a man and a woman facing one another, with their actual images within the silhouette facing away from one another. The words on the graphic say codependent Codependency in power exchange and authority transfer dynamics taught by Farrah Bonnot MS, LPC on Sept 20 at 8pm CT hosted by SADE
September 20, 2022
8:00 pm
It can be easy to fall into patterns of overfunctioning or underfunctioning for our partners in kink. Join Farrah Bonnot, LPC, to learn more about moving away from enmeshment and towards interdependence.
An image of a person typing on a keyboard with post it notes and reminders in a mess all around. The text on the image says productivity for service building a productivity system for service based on your core values with Hannah The Scribe
October 18, 2022
8:00 pm
In this class, Hannah the Scribe will teach you how to build a customizable productivity for service system based on your core values.
An image of rowdy children with stressed parents and the text parenting and power exchange balancing Balancing Power Exchange / Authority Transfer with Families and Children on top of the image. Hosted by SADE on November 15 at 8pm central time.
November 15, 2022
8:00 pm
This class will dive into the challenges & rewards of living PE/AT while raising a family.

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June 16, 2024
4:00 pm
Gor and its practitioners have, at many times, been critiqued for presenting a heteronormative, patriarchal, and eurocentric model for Master/slave relationships. To many, this can be off-putting at best and offensive at worst. However, Gor is what its practitioners make...

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