The Best of Both Worlds: Balancing Power Exchange and Authority Transfer with Families and Children

An image of rowdy children with stressed parents and the text parenting and power exchange balancing Balancing Power Exchange / Authority Transfer with Families and Children on top of the image. Hosted by SADE on November 15 at 8pm central time.
You don’t have to give up having a power exchange authority transfer and family together. Although, family and authority transfer conflict, they often run parallel. Above all, the wonderful worlds of BDSM and parenting aren’t that different. And, you can use the same values that you learn in BDSM for parenting, and vice versa!
 
This class will dive into the challenges & rewards of living a 24/7 Master/slave lifestyle power exchange authority transfer while raising a family. Our instructors include Nkay: slave, human grower, pediatric nurse practitioner with a mental health emphasis, and life guide to two spawn. She co-parents alongside her Master Niho_Mano, a formerly reluctant, now award-winning “Step” Father. One who is navigating parenting after years without children.
 
Together, their family has managed BDSM and parenting. Most importantly, finding balance while living M/s, co-parenting, practicing polyamory, growing careers, through gender/sexuality discoveries. And now, their biggest (and most terrifying) challenge…teenagers.
 
They attribute much of this BDSM and parenting success to the strong foundation their family was able to grow from: a strong M/s dynamic power exchange with aligning family values.
 
They will discuss topics including:
  • Parenting models/theories
  • Living authentically M/s while instilling important values (feminism, consent)
  • Transparency & developmentally appropriate honesty
  • Family approved rituals and protocols
  • Discipline
  • Finding time for kink

This class is suitable for everyone, regardless of parental status. The concepts taught are applicable to families of all kinds.

Event Details
  • Days
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  • Start Date
    November 15, 2022 8:00 pm
  • End Date
    November 15, 2022 10:00 pm
  • Organizer
  • Virtual Event

    on Zoom

An image of Nkay Nadia. She is tied in rope and her shirt is open to reveal red lingerie. Niho's hands are in her mouth and pulling her back towards him.
Medical Professional, Consent Advocate, Educator
Nkay or Nadia is a slave and sadomasochistic rope switch, is equal parts twisted mind and ball full of giggles.
Niho Niho_Mano Steve is standing above Nkay and has her pulled back towards him with her fingers in his mouth.
Educator
Niho_Mano identifies as a Dominant Sexual Sadist, with Primal tendencies. Niho enjoys hurting people who enjoy being hurt.

Yes. Our classes are for 18+ consenting adults only, and may include content that could be stressful to some attendees. We do our very best to be clear about what may be discussed in a particular class, and encourage attendees to care for own their safety and well being. We do not close our Zoom classes, so attendees are free to leave and re-enter as they wish. Additionally, attendees are not obligated to have their name or scene name listed, or their camera or microphone on at any point during the class.

This class may include (but is not limited to) discussions and depictions of the following:

*Specific Details TBA*

Please do not hesitate to reach out to SADE Leadership with any questions regarding the content discussed in a class. We are ready and available to be a source of support and/or provide helpful resources to any attendee who may need it.

Absolutely! We encourage respectful and active participation. Please post your questions in the chat, and Leadership will ensure the presenter sees them. If you would like to ask a question anonymously, please private message any SADE leadership member during class. If you think of any after class, feel free to message us and we'll get in touch with the presenter for you!

Yes! We will email class handouts to our attendees by the end of the week of class.

For the privacy of all, and the protection of intellectual property of our presenters, we do not record any of our classes and prohibit any recording. After class notes will be sent to all attendees by the end of the week of class. Sign up for our email newsletter for free resources!

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Event Details
  • Days
    Hours
    Min
    Sec
  • Start Date
    November 15, 2022 8:00 pm
  • End Date
    November 15, 2022 10:00 pm
  • Organizer
  • Virtual Event

    on Zoom

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