Real Doms Don’t Cry: Toxic Masculinity in Kink w/WrathDaddy and Amanda Wolf

Brand new class announcement, available online globally AND in person in Austin, TX.

From Doms who feel entitled to the bodies and submission of every femme sub they meet, to consent violations, to the image of Masters as cold stoic beings without feelings, male expectations, privileges, limitations, and feelings of entitlement inherited from the vanilla world have spilled over into our kink lives with disastrous results.

We will explore the ways toxic heteronormative gender norms have hurt our community and how to uncouple them from our kinky lives.

About our instructors

Master WrathDaddy Bio:

Master WrathDaddy is the 2019, 2020, 2021, and 2022 Heartland Person of Leather, a horror and erotica author, former heavyweight kickboxing champion, former MMA trainer, former owner and proprietor of The Bacchanal (Austin’s community dungeon), and a badass motherfucker who enjoys doing badass shit with other badass motherfuckers. He has been a full-time and active member of Austin’s BDSM community since 2013, though he has been in and out of the kink community since 1991. Since then he has been a board member at large for GWNN (Group With No Name) one of Austin’s oldest and largest BDSM groups, from 2015 through 2016, co-chairman of the GWNN Bash in 2015 and 2016, a mentor in the Austin Mentor’s Program, and has presented workshops for SAADE, GWNN, Desert Dominion, Flame Conference, Wicked Grounds, Threshold, Master Slave Conference, Kinkfest, Colorado Leather Fest, Oklahoma Leather Fest, and many other local, national, and international groups on topics ranging from the Daddy Dom/ babygirl dynamic to rough-body play, and knife-play. He is the author of Kinky Adult Bedtime Stories (For littles, babygirls, and bois) and All The Kinky Kinksters From A to Z.

Amanda Wolf Bio:

Will be added soon!

Class skill level: All

Class format: Lecture with audio/video presentation

Participant Materials: None

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Event Details
  • Start Date
    August 27, 2023 1:00 pm
  • End Date
    August 27, 2023 3:00 pm
  • Organizer
  • Hybrid Event - Online (globally) and in person (ATX)

    This class will be broadcast via Zoom globally, and a limited number of in person tickets are available for live attendance in Austin, Texas.

Eventbrite - online and in person
$10-12

Tickets for online and in person are available here.

Forbidden Tickets - online and in person
$10-12

Tickets for online/global access via Zoom and in person in Austin, Tx.

Yes. Our classes are for 18+ consenting adults only, and may include content that could be stressful to some attendees. We do our very best to be clear about what may be discussed in a particular class, and encourage attendees to care for own their safety and well being. We do not close our classroom, so attendees are free to leave and re-enter as they wish. Additionally, attendees are not obligated to have their name or scene name listed, or their camera or microphone on at any point during the class.

Absolutely! We encourage respectful and active participation. Please post your questions in the chat, and Leadership will ensure the presenters see them. If you would like to ask a question anonymously, please private message any SADE leadership member during class. If you think of any after class, feel free to message us and we'll get in touch with the presenters for you!

Yes! We will email class handouts to our attendees by the end of the week of class.

For the privacy of all, and the protection of intellectual property of our presenters, we do not record any of our classes and prohibit any recording. After class notes will be sent to all attendees by the end of the week of class. Sign up for our email newsletter for free resources!

Closed captioning will be provided through the Zoom app.

Event Details
  • Start Date
    August 27, 2023 1:00 pm
  • End Date
    August 27, 2023 3:00 pm
  • Organizer
  • Hybrid Event - Online (globally) and in person (ATX)

    This class will be broadcast via Zoom globally, and a limited number of in person tickets are available for live attendance in Austin, Texas.

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