Invictuz and BebeBlueEyes met in 2018 at Polyamory Conmet in 2018 at Polyamory Con, connecting over their mutual passion for Consent in our personal interactions & our community as a whole. Invictuz and BebeBlueEyes instantly started to build their relationship, growing into D/s, eventually moving into a M/s dynamic. Their dynamic is currently long-distance, however they have developed strategies for honoring the relationship from afar. They seek to teach these strategies, polyamory, and consent, to anyone who will listen.
Bebe is an IT professional and a certified sexual assault advocate. Given her professional background, it’s no surprise that she is passionate about consent. She serves on the Board of Directors for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). Their mission is to create a political, legal and social environment in the US that advances equal rights for consenting adults who engage in alternative sexual and relationship expressions. Her role is Coalition Partner Liaison, Consent Counts, and Education Outreach Committee. She also manages their email newsletter and social media strategy.
Additionally, she identifies as Solo Poly, and has multiple power exchange dynamics with other partners. With respect to her existing dynamic with Invictuz, Bebe has developed strategies for honoring all of her dynamics.