An image of Invictuz and BebeBlueEyes on the day of Bebe's collaring. She is wearing her Leather collar with a silver ring and they are both smiling at the camera

Invictuz & Bebe met in 2018 at Polyamory Con, connecting over their mutual passion for Consent in our personal interactions & our community as a whole. Invictuz and Bebe instantly started to build their relationship, growing into D/s, eventually moving into a M/s dynamic. Their dynamic is currently long-distance, however they have developed strategies for honoring the relationship from afar. They seek to teach these strategies, polyamory, and consent, to anyone who will listen.

Self-proclaimed nerd, sex geek, and consent junkie, Invictuz is a recent MSW graduate and pursuing his new career in social work. He became interested in consent initially as a personal project. Now, it is his passion and what he is best known for teaching. He serves on the Board of Directors for Lovingmore. Additionally, he served as President of the Board of Directors for the Houston Polyamory Organization. And, as volunteer facilitator for a weekly polyamory peer discussion group. His focus is educating people on the validity of polyamory in loving relationships and family lifestyles.

Identifying as Solo Poly, he has multiple power exchange dynamics with other partners. Further, he values education, accessibility, and promoting visibility to the polyamory and kink communities. Upon graduating, he intends to serve the global kink community in greater ways. Approaching a decade of polyamory, he seeks to gain more poly knowledge and insight, and share it with the world.

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