How to Talk Like a Top

An image of Leather BDSM equipment with the words Talk Like a Top with Danarama from kink.com who will teach voice and words in Topping

How to Talk Like a Top

The voice and words Dom(me)s use in a scene can powerful. Sometimes, as powerful as the physical tools they wield. But, knowing what to say and how to say it within the context of a scene while Topping is often an overlooked. However, it is one of the most challenging aspects of Topping. Your voice and how you use it can make or break a scene when you are the Top. Danarama will describe, demonstrate, and lead a discussion of dozens of effective techniques for using voice and words in scenes.

These lessons and scenarios not only fill the void of silence, but also make your scenes more dynamic, intimidating, cathartic, and sexy than ever before.

Danarama will also discuss:

    • Fruitful negotiation
    • Prattle preparation
    • Tone of voice and vocal tricks for Topping
    • Talking hot and dirty
    • Role playing that’s ripe for words
    • Talking Domly without being demeaning
EVENT ENDED!
Event Details
  • Start Date
    February 15, 2022 8:00 pm
  • End Date
    February 15, 2022 10:00 pm
  • Organizer
  • Virtual Event

    on Zoom

An image of Danarama from Kink.com facing forward with his hand on a St. Andrews Cross and facing towards the camera
Professional Speaker, BDSM Teacher
Kink.com
Danarama has more than two decades of experience a Dominant in the Bondage and S&M lifestyle and 18 years as a professional speaker and teacher on bondage and alternative sexuality skills.

Yes. Our classes are for 18+ consenting adults only, and may include content that could be stressful to some attendees. We do our very best to be clear about what may be discussed in a particular class, and encourage attendees to care for own their safety and well being. We do not close our Zoom classes, so attendees are free to leave and re-enter as they wish. Additionally, attendees are not obligated to have their name or scene name listed, or their camera or microphone on at any point during the class.

This class may include (but is not limited to) discussions and depictions of the following:

1. Consensual BDSM/kink activity, nudity, and sexual activity.
2. Abuse - emotional, verbal
3. Interrogation, torture, war, combat
4. Mental illness

Please do not hesitate to reach out to SADE Leadership with any questions regarding the content discussed in a class. We are ready and available to be a source of support and/or provide helpful resources to any attendee who may need it.

Absolutely! We encourage respectful and active participation. Please post your questions in the chat, and Leadership will ensure the presenter sees them. If you would like to ask a question anonymously, please private message any SADE leadership member during class. If you think of any after class, feel free to message us and we'll get in touch with the presenter for you!

Yes! We will email class handouts to our attendees by the end of the week of class.

For the privacy of all, and the protection of intellectual property of our presenters, we do not record any of our classes and prohibit any recording. After class notes will be sent to all attendees by the end of the week of class. Sign up for our email newsletter for free resources!

Zoom does not provide closed captioning. We recommend using the Live Transcribe App for Apple/iOS and Android.

Event Details
  • Start Date
    February 15, 2022 8:00 pm
  • End Date
    February 15, 2022 10:00 pm
  • Organizer
  • Virtual Event

    on Zoom

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